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Online Dating: Respecting Yourself And Others

by Richard T. Kessinger

In terms of relationships and all types of dating, honesty is the key to success. If you can't tell your significant other the truth, your relationship simply won't last and we're sure you'll regret it later. A common rule of thumb is if you can't be straight with the other person, consider dating someone else.

The anonymous world of online dating is one that needs to be approached with respect. All the people who use these services are just looking for fun and companionship, the same as you.

It is important to maintain a level of respect in both your profile and direct contacts. Communication should be never tawdry or negative when talking about physical appearances.

Rather than ignoring a person who has contacted you or when you have lost interest in a potential mate you should send them a note explaining why you feel this way. Tell them that they are not an ideal match for you and that although there was some communication that was positive you really are looking for a perfect match.

You should also avoid white lies. If you don't like something be honest instead of saying you do like it or that something might be fun. For instance if you don't like baseball don't say you'd enjoy going to a game or watching it on television.

Everyone wants to find companionship whether it be someone to simply hang out with in the short term or a life long commitment. But even in the anonymous online dating world, respect if extremely important. Therefore, you should never lie about your job, income, or age.

It's better if you focus on the dos and put off the negatives to make dating a pleasant occasion for everyone. Series of lies will put you in trouble and being disrespectful could make you feel sorry at one stage, especially when you're involved in it. Be frank in telling the person whether you like him/her or not.

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Published January 8th, 2008

Filed in Relationship, Society, Women